Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Wish Lists

Well, on the heels of the last post, I feel kind of icky posting this right now. However, I don't know how much time I'll have to get this up through out the rest of the week, so here are some "wish list" ideas for the Rahija children (as requested by grandparents and other family members).

Updates on things that are "off" the list are marked with *** or red text

Erin:
Easel ***
magnetic board (like bulletin board,to display her art) ***
Leapster games
rechargable batteries (AA) for her leapster
CDs (children's worship songs)
Movies:
  • Cars
  • Over the Hedge
  • Cinderella
  • Ice Age 2
  • Care Bears
  • Dora the Explorer
Veggie Tales:
  • Where's God When I'm Scared ***
  • God Wants Me to Forgive Them?
  • Esther: The Girl Who Became Queen ***
  • any of the Larryboy movies
  • Sheerluck Holmes
  • Gideon: Tuba Warrior
Bed for dollies
Crown ***
Clothes: size 6 and up
Shoes: Size 12 and up
Hats - for play and regular wear
Digital camera - cheapo or old one just for her to enjoy ***
Ponies
Baby doll clothes


Avery:
dolly ***
toys
Baby Einstein movies
clothes: 9 months +

Thanksgiving thoughts

As we prepare for the Thanksgiving holiday weekend, I am reminded of several things to be thankful for ... my family, my health, the roof over my head, the new roof that will be over my head after Christmas (if everything goes according to plan!), ... Mostly, and most importantly, I am thankful for the faithfulness, love, and guidance of my God. This year has been full of changes, and He has brought us to each of them, and through each of them. Avery joined our family in March, healthy as can be. She is happy and loving, and has not taken after her sister in most ways (which is a BIG blessing to me!). She is her own person, and we love it! The baby that didn't join our family is cradled in heaven's arms now, and that is a blessing too - who could ask for more? Our marriage turned 5 this year, and that is a blessing too - we are still surviving and still love each other! Erin turned 4, which brought some trial, but not anything that has killed us yet. David's Bronco has finally been totalled, and now salvaged with a title transfer to Shane, and we are a 1-vehicle family for now. God is good, all the time ... He has gifted us, protected us, guided us, provided for us, and been faithful to His promises. I'm sure David will post about this latest display of God's divine timing soon, as we are preparing close on our first home! I hope you enjoy your time of thankful reflecting this year, as you recall how God has blessed your life, even if it didn't seem like it at the time :)

Thank you, Father, for your constant love, that never fades or changes. Thank You, for Your faithfulness to your word, that you will always provide for us, have our best interest in mind, and will never leave us or forsake us. Thank You, for the gift of Your Son, that You gave in my place, so that I would know Your love and live with You forever. Thank You for the gift of forgiveness, and allowing us to come into Your presence to ask for it. We deserve nothing but pain and strife, yet You give us life abundantly! I love You, Lord.

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Long time, no blog


Well, I realized today that the last post I had posted was like 2-3 weeks ago, and quite "down" in nature. I don't really have anything particularly exciting to post today ... we are going to look at a house for the 2nd time on Thursday (which, by the way, I love this house ... it has an adorable kitchen, three bedrooms upstairs, and unfinished basement with a 2nd bath downstairs ... a great backyard ... a little shed/possible playhouse in the backyard ... a great garage with built in storage cabinets ... two-wide driveway ... and lots of charm ... did I mention I really fell for the place?). When we looked the first time, we were very interested, but our realtor friend, Ron, told us there had been an offer placed on the house a few days later, and the contract was pending. I called to check the status of that house, and Ron told me that it was still pending, but he'd let me know if anything changed. The next day, he called to tell me that 5 minutes after walking into his office, the listing agent of that house called to tell him that the buyer was getting "flaky" and might back out on the contract. This is why we are going to take a second look ... if we like it and the buyer does "flake", then we can be ready to put in a back up offer. I don't really know much about this whole process, but we're learning!

Avery is growing in size and ability lately ... she can sit up by herself from an almost flat position (just needs a tad of an incline to sit right up -- abs of steel!), she's trying to talk, and her smiles are more precious than ever.

Erin is growing too, and is often mistaken for a 5 or 6 year old. Her vocab is also growing. The latest "big" word is perservere. The other day she came up to me all excited and said, "Mom, I just finished cleaning up my closet. It was hard and I wanted to quit, but I kept working at it and I perservered! It's pretty clean now!" Yep, that's our Erin!

We've had some really neat relationship growing time within our "congregation" lately. It excites me to see that growth happening! We have also started working with the homeless/transient community in Lawrence, which has been a blessing to me. I feel like, in general, God is asking/putting opportunities in front of me that are way beyond my comfort zone/ability/skill set and giving me blind courage and ability in those situations that are blowing me away ... for example, building relationships with several of the transient/homeless individuals (I look forward to going under the bridge to check for Mark or Kevin, and I strain to hear Kimberly's morracas when we take sandwiches and coffee out on Saturday nights ... walking up to the door of near strangers to invite them to dinner at the ministry center ... hanging out with some people who are not who I would typically seek as friends ...). In words, it doesn't seem like much, but in real life, it has been a stretch, but one that I don't see until after it has happened, if that makes any sense. Maybe I am just learning to follow the leading of His Spirit without so much question, and letting Him be my strength in my weakness.

Well, that's about it. Avery spit up on me after eating a wee bit too much and I would really like to take a shower. This afternoon, I think we will go over to Erin's friend James' house, so the kids can play and the mommies can visit for a while. Enjoy this cold, blustery day!