Yikes!

Sorry for the lack of posts this last month+! Life has been so busy with Christmas preparations and celebrations, I have not thought much about my blog!

Now that most of the celebrating is over, we are settling back into a routine of sorts. We visited my parents/extended family the weekend prior to Christmas, and spent Christmas weekend with David's family. We came home with a "bit" of a stomach virus on Sunday night, and we now are feeling much better.

Well, I do not have much to share at this moment. Baby Rahija is doing well, as Dr. Peck found today, and she is as active as ever. We are going to watch a bit more of Pride and Prejudice (the A&E version, compliments of my husband!), and going to head to bed. Good night, and hopefully I will write again soon!

Day-After-Thanksgiving Sale!

Hello! I am just posting this to let everyone know about the great 12-hour holiday sale I'm having on Friday, November 25th. Starting at 7am, all orders placed online will receive a 24% discount, orders placed after 8am will get a 22% discount, after 9 a 20% discount, and so on ... I am also doing a "lottery" at the end of the 12 hours, and drawing one name to receive 50% off their entire order, and two people to receive an additional 10% off their order!

I have great gift sets that are wrapped and ready to go under the tree, into stockings, or in the mail to those not near you. I also put together custome gifts according to your needs, and have gift certificates available. Let me help you de-stress the holiday shopping experience, by helping you choose the perfect gifts for your family and friends (and other miscellaneous people on your gift list!).

I also have great things for YOU this season, with new trendy color collections, glamourous glimmer, and luxurious skin-care to make your dull, winter skin melt away into silky soft skin. Don't forget to keep yourself looking cute, and feeling great!

Please visit my personal website to see what's new, and place your orders early on Friday to get your best savings! Happy Thanksgiving!

Closer to the Goal

We have added yet another new consultant to our team this week, welcome Angela! Angela has been a great customer and is ready to stop paying full price for her products! She is a wonderful educator, mother, wife, and friend, and I am so excited for her in this new venture, wherever it takes her!

We also have two other lovely ladies who are in the decision-making process this week, and I would be honored to work with them!

The trip to Emporia was great with a power class of over 20 women in attendance between 4 consultants. What a fun time!

Our team production is just over half of what our goal is for the month, and we are just starting the second half of the month, so we are excited! God is moving in ways we haven't expected (I guess that's appropriate, huh?!) and is working in amazing ways in the women on our team! I am so blessed to know these ladies!

Have a great week, and keep us in prayer as we stretch to wrap our Vibe up this month -- two months ahead of schedule!!!!

Great Ideas ...

Can I just comment on something that has been bothering me since Saturday morning? I would like to offer props to the individual who thought up the idea of a catheter -- use a tube to drain unwanted or needed fluid from one area of the body into a receptacle, I can definitely appreciate the ingenuity of this idea. HOWEVER, I don't know that the person who invented this miraculous device ever had one to remove fluid from an infected bladder. If so, I think they would have scrapped their idea, thrown away the prototype, and kicked themselves for thinking they could make things better :)

I found myself with a UTI late Friday night/Saturday morning, and because of the baby, I had to take a trip to the ER (UTI can cause preterm labor). Thinking I would simply to in and collect a sample in a cup, I was okay with this. Such was not the case. As I am over 20 weeks of my pregnancy, it is procedure to be admitted onto the OB floor to monitor the baby and make sure labor hasn't started. The nurse was great, and was sure we could to a "clean catch" (pee in a cup), but the doctor had another solution ... the catheter! For those of you who don't know, this is a fairly simple procedure. The nurse crams a bit of plastic tubing up to drain the bladder and collect a urine sample directly from the bladder instead of allowing it to pass through the body. I have not felt anything like this pain before ... at least with childbirth, there was a relief ... not so with the cath. If at all possible, I would avoid this at most costs!

Probably more info than you cared to know, but it was my current thought :) Have a great week!

Blessing keep Rollin' In!

More good news ... Wednesday, we welcomed Judy, a new friend from the Overland Park area to our team! I am so excited to get to know her more, but already feel connected to her -- a God-thing! We are going to reach our goal this month of 6 new consultants and team production of $10,000, I just know it! Can't wait to meet the other ladies who will join us! We are 1/2 of the way there, and nearly 1/2 (Monday we will have another one, I am sure!)! God is good, all the time!

Vibin'

Hello, just another note to celebrate my growing team (future unit!). We have another beautiful, talented, wonderful woman on our team! Rachel signed her agreement on Monday! I am so blessed to know this woman! She is so easy to love and I have enjoyed our friendship so much! This brings us to 10 team members, 4 active, and several who will be active soon! We will welcome 5 more new women to our team this month too, (that is my goal and positive affirmation statement!), and wrap up most, if not all of our car production, so we will be a Vibe-driving team! I'm tired of sharing the car with David, and now I won't have to anymore! I've never owned a new car before ... makes me excited to have a new one for free! Have a great day!

Oops!

Well, I see it's been a month since my last post -- I hate it when I fall behind like this! There is so much that happens, but is seems the time to write about it is short, or in my case, the pregnancy-forgetfulness makes me, well, forget! So, I will hopefully get caught up on life in Rahija-land here soonly :)

A quick over-view:
The blue ghetto beast (aka David's work car) finally died.

Erin started story hour.

University church is going to one service on Sundays, not two ... yea!

I recruited two new team members, and am on-target again for my 2006 red Pontiac Vibe from Mary Kay (especially exciting in light of the first announcement!).

We took David to the emergency room via ambulance, suspecting a heart attack, and found a sinus infection.

Halloween was a disaster ... FYI, Halloween is a spooky time, not for being pretty :)

Baby Rahija (now half-way through the womb-time!) is not a baby Joshua, but a sister ... Big sister is not pleased.

I'll try to update the situations more closely and with a bit more detail in the coming days ... but who knows what will happen between now and then?! Hope to talk to many of you soon!

New Team Member!

I am proud and excited to announce a new team member to my Mary Kay family! Bianca, of Lawrence, joins us and brings such a joy to our group! She is funny, sweet, adorable, and makes people feel comfortable instantly! So excited to have a new face on our team! She attended her first meeting as my guest this week, and enjoyed Dale's singing so much, I guess she wanted to come back!

Okay, we need a name soon here, because we're going to have to start stating it out loud soon, as we have 7 ladies on the team, and will be able to enter DIQ with 8 actives! Woo hoo! Any suggestions are welcome ... remember, I like words like service/servant, reaching, grace, ... Maybe Rahija's grace givers? I don't know ... like I said, I'm up for suggestions! Have a wonderful end of the week!

Diva in the Making

Tonight David and I had a worship practice with Glenn and Rachel and it was really fun to just play, sing, and woship together. What we didn't bank on was the extra back-up vocalist joining our group. Erin, after getting all "gussied up" in "play clothes" attire thanks to Glenn's daughters, came out of her dressing room looking the part of a Wilma Flintstone meets sequin/feather beauty. Her animal print top was adorned with green, red, and lavendar beads, wrists bedazzled with hot pink, green, and orange, and the skirt, perhaps the most intriguing part of the outfit, was silver sequins with hot pink feather trim. Oh, she also had a purple headband on, and almost looked like she stepped out of an 80's dance flick (Girls Just Wanna Have Fun comes to mind!).

Well, we all oohed and ahhed over her makeover, but she was just getting started. She informed us that she wanted to sing too, so grabbed some of our music, made a spot for herself on the floor, and did her best to sing along. Her heart was completely in it, as she mainly provided an echo for Rachel and I (who were not in her league as far as fashion goes!), but belted it out as loudly as she could, lips pressed to the mic that was plugged in, but thankfully not hot. She watched our mouths intently, trying to mimic every movement, and did a pretty good job with the choruses of a few of the songs. The Word says make a joyful noise ... and that she did! I know that His heart was smiling as widely as ours were!

Perhaps the most "diva-ish" moment was when she got up as David and Glenn were playing the intro to the next song, stopped David cold with her hand, and said, "Daddy, don't start the next song ... I need a drink." She casually sauntered across the room to retrieve her Capri Sun, sipped leisurely, then returned to her spot, with an "Okay, you can start now." I kept waiting for flourishing hand movements, but I guess that will come at the next practice. Whew, I feel sorry for her future band-mates! What a drama queen!

Whew!

Wow, I see I'm LONG past overdue for a new blog entry ... yikes, over a month since the last post, and it seems like so much, yet so little has happened in that time frame.

We are still on course for a new baby late March-early April. We were so excited last visit to Dr. Peck when his doplar device for hearing the heartbeat was low on battery and we had to do a quick sonogram instead to check in on Baby Rahija. He/she is so much bigger than last time, and we got to see the heart beating, arms, legs, and a precious face! The day is nearing when I will HAVE to go shopping -- I tried on a shirt this morning that showed two inches of belly ... not-so-nice for those around me, so I quickly changed before horrifying too many innocent bystanders. Whew, lucky for them! The little stinker is giving me a run for my money, though! I have been SOOOOOOO sick-feeling, and as I have just crossed into the second trimester, I am feeling a little better, with more energy, but still the lovely feeling of nausea quite a bit of the time. This too, is getting a bit better, though, so there are things to celebrate ... like getting a load of laundry done, unloading and reloading the dishwasher without having to sit down in the middle, cooking a meal, and going through a day without a nap (or two)!

Erin doesn't seem to be experiencing sympathy pains with me, so I remain her personal jungle gym, trampoline, and punching bag. She has done pretty well, though, as the middle and end of summer has passed by without much outside play. The nice days last week were wonderful, and she had time to scream and play outside in nice weather. Today, she went to the Topeka zoo with Grandma Rahija, Aunt Michelle, Baby Natalie, Ann H and Kailee. This was a huge hit, and we made our own Lego zoo upon her return. The animals are a mix of Noah's ark and a garage sale misc. bag. They seem to be getting along, although I think it's kinda funny that the lions are next to the giraffes and gorilla. Hopefully they survive the night :)

We went to Tulsa over Labor Day weekend, and spent some great time with Krista and the Rahija family. David, Dad, and Krista did lots of hard work in the yard, while Mom, Michelle, and I stayed inside with the girls. Erin enjoyed playing in the dirt (buried up to her stomach, literally!) I'll save the story of "flying pizza crust" for another day.

We continue to build wonderful relationships with new and old friends at University Church. It's so wonderful to be a part of a loving family of believers, and adding to it all the time! We have had several students visit us for worship and Phat Tuesday (which is now held on Thursdays, so you can call it Phat Thursday or Phat Tuesday on Thursday, whichever you prefer!). The food and fun are still great, so if you don't have plans for dinner on Thursdays, swing over to 1921 Hillview, off 19th and Naismith and join us!

Okay, that's enough rambling for one night. I will try to blog again soon, as the thought of sitting at the computer doesn't make me nauseated these days (the heat from our office and the computers made me sick ... I know, it sounds stupid, but ... what can I say?) Talk to you soon!

Much Ado ...

Yes, yes, it's been weeks since I've last posted! Sorry ... life seems to have taken a swing toward crazy, and it doesn't seem to be slowing down any! Since my last entry, I've been to Dallas for the Mary Kay seminar ... which was AMAZING and I am very excited to lead my team to become a unit this year, and return as a director next year, with David attending as well. I had a wonderful time, and enjoyed the "girl time" with the gals from our unit. I have a new niece, Natalie Renee, born August 1st, to John and Michelle Riggs. Erin is a proud new cousin, and although we have only seen Natalie in person once, we talk about her frequently and enjoy looking at her pictures!

We also have another piece of exciting news. Last Thursday, we went to see Dr. Peck and the fabulous staff at Olathe OB/GYN and saw our baby's heartbeat for the first time. The new Rahija will make an appearance in late March, due the 27th. We are very excited, although mommy is very tired of the "morning" (more like any time of day) sickness and feeling zapped all the time. Erin was sick last Wednesday with fever/vomitting ... thankfully I didn't catch that, although I felt like doing it right along with her! We covet your prayers during this time, as we know things are uncertain for the first trimester (we're about 9 weeks along now), and at any point in the pregnancy. I feel God's peace, and am not worrying everyday, just thankful for the life inside me. I am already changing shape, and will probably be in maternity clothes before too long ... whoever "they" are that say you don't hold the second one in like the first was right, I guess, ... bye bye "girlish figure"! I'm happy to lose shape, or at least distinctively change shapes! I hope you are all having a wonderful day!

New Bed

Erin is excited to be getting a new bed tomorrow! The reason for needing a new bed, is her deconstruction of her custome-made "big girl bed". Strangely enough, a wooden toddler bed does not support two "big girls" swinging, Tarzan style, from the support board between the posters. As crushed as I was, Erin seemed to think Grandpa Rahija would forgive her, and she is anxiously awaiting her new bigger, big girl bed (a twin bed). Grandma even found some Blues Clues sheets on a garage sale, and we've been using the pillowcase this week.

Hopefully we can have her room cleaned by tomorrow evening, as grandma and grandpa are coming over to deliver the bed and eat dinner with us! I hope I have my kitchen cleaned too! Thank goodness for dishwashers!

Another New Consultant!

I have great news to report! On Friday afternoon, my team gained a wonderful new addition! We welcome Michele R to our team and are excited to help her get started! She has two very specific goals in mind for the beginning of her business, 1. to teach women how to and why it's important to take care of their skin and 2. to raise money for a move to a new city. The great thing is that she will definitely be able to do both things, and do them simultaneously. Also, she will be able to take her business with her when she moves, as Mary Kay has no territories or regions, and we are in over 20 countries world-wide! What a great opportunity for her! I am so pleased, because Michele is such a sweet girl, with some great life experience under her belt. She is going to do great things in Mary Kay, and I am pleased to be on the journey with her!

This brings me to a little problem. I have been trying to figure out a name for our team, and have come up with some ideas, but nothing that really grabs me. I want the idea of "seeking" to be involved in some way, as we are each seeking something, whether it be to reach women for Christ, make a few extra bucks, become a director or NSD, win the cars, ... we are seeking something. However, I don't like "Sarah's seekers" because it seems like they are seeking me, and that is not what I want to portray! It's nice to use alliteration, like our unit is "Derrell's Driving Divas". I've also heard Wanda's Wonders, Shaw's Shining Stars, ... Then again, there are some without, and that's fine too, SOOOOO, I'm asking for your help. I like words like seek, serve/servant/service, reaching, streatching, ... I also would like to try to use Sarah or Rahija as the beginning, but it's not necessary. I know some of you who read my blog are VERY word-creative, so unleash the creative juices and let me know what results! Please!

That brings our team to 6 this month! I am hoping to get back on target for the Vibe this month too, and as Michele is wanting to order a great inventory package, I think the rest of us can pull together to get us there! The company has some great incentives this month/quarter for us, too, and I can't wait to help my gals reach their goals and dream bigger than they've ever dreamed before!

Well, I need to get ready for our trip to Lawrence this afternoon. Have a great week!

Erin has Returned to the building

I picked Erin up in Salina today. She's been visiting Athol since Saturday, with Grandpa and Grandma Gerstenkorn. She was taller, browner, and full of stories from the farm (cows, mudpies, climing the guidewires from telephone poles, digging in Great Grandpa B's garden ...). She was also very tired, and needing some snuggling from mommy and daddy -- this made us happy! Upon arriving home, she began helping Daddy and Grandpa Rahija work on the Bronco. It was sure cute to see her two little legs sticking out from under the Bronco next to Grandpa's long legs. She soon tired of lying on the driveway, however, and resorted to tossing water in the general direction of the Bronco from the bench next to the house. It's good to have her home again, even if she didn't want to stay inside for a bath or stop coloring with markers at bedtime. Love her ... missed her ... glad to have had a little break from her! Thank goodness for Grandparents (on BOTH sides!)!!!


Oh, sidenote, congrats to our friends Jamin and Leah Will on the birth of their son, Levi Davis! What a precious little bundle of joy!

Grandma Boeck

Well, news for Grandma Boeck is that they removed 1300 cc of fluid from her lung cavity today. That's 1 1/3 liters -- when I think of that inside my very skinny grandma, it's kinda scary! She's doing much better, but apparently there was much more pain this time than last. However, they were on their way home this afternoon. Hopefully she can slow down some, instead of trying to have the most beautiful lawn in Gaylord, KS, and growing enough corn for everyone in the county -- they don't learn! Thanks for your prayers, she (and I) have appreciated them!

Funny Erin Insight

I have been meaning to post this for a few weeks, and keep forgetting, but it is priceless. As we are preparing for a new baby in our family, Erin's new cousin, or "cousint" as she used to say, we have been talking quite a bit about how the baby is growing in Aunt Chellie's tummy. I have the Mayo Clinic's Pregnancy and Baby's First Year book, from when I was pregnant with Erin, and it has some great pictures of baby development in the womb, with actual color pictures. I found these and thought it might help Erin understand that the baby was taking time to grow, and when she was done growing, then she would come out, but until then, she had to stay safe inside Aunt Chellie. This was great for a few days, and we had lots of neat conversations. About four days into this, however, I see a look of doubt and confusion on Erin's face. A few moments later, Erin places her hand on my leg, looks into my eyes with a look of pity and consolation, and says, "Mommy, I don't think those are babies in the pictures."

I can see how this might be confusing to her, so I asked her what she thought they were. Again, with the hand on my leg, patting me in sympathy for my mistake, she breaks the news as gently as she can ... "Mommy, I'm pretty sure those are squirrels. It's okay, mommy, but those aren't babies."

Now, I can see why she would say this, as the babies' cords are plainly visible, and their arms and legs are not fully grown. How, though, was I supposed to hold in the laughter??! Well, I couldn't, and although I think Erin still thought I was in denial, she laughed too. What a precious moment in my life! I laughed so hard I cried, and Erin laughed because she thought I was insane! See, there are plenty of joyful moments to outshine the negative ones! I would have to say this is the funniest things she's said, except maybe the time she first saw kiwis and ran into the room holding two of them exclaiming, "Look mom, hairy acorns!"

Yep, it's great to be the mom of a two year old!

Busy times

Yes, yes, it's been a while! With the Mary Kay year coming to an end, and lots of family things going on, it's been a busy two weeks! My Mary Kay team is doing well, and I am officially a Team Leader, which bumped my commission check up to 9% instead of 4%, which will be great this month! We had a great production, and are starting to function as a team! I also was a team captain in our unit to try to rally the troops to place an order to finish strong this seminar year. We didn't reach our goal, but did 50% more production than last month, so it was a success! Thanks to the ladies who worked hard to do that! The Driving Divas will wrap up the second cadillac in September or before! Congrats to Jill Derrell, our fabulous director!

Last weekend we stayed in Kansas City with Grandma Rahija while mom and dad were out of town. We enjoyed visiting with Grandma (Granny, for Erin), Jim and Pat, and the Parkway Baptist Church family. David and I helped lead music worship for the service Sunday morning, and had a great time!

This weekend is preparation for Michelle's baby shower (which is Sunday evening), and includes a visit from Krista! Erin is very excited (as are we all). I'm sure it will be fun, and hopefully we'll get John and Michelle's house pretty well finished! Baby Riggs is arriving soon, and we are all excited to meet her!

My grandma Boeck has fluid on her lungs again, much like she did when I started this whole blog thing. They are in Kearney, NE today trying to figure out what to do. Please keep her in prayer.

Well, I think that about does it. I have a new Mary Kay Look Book (catalog) for the new quarter, and my personal website has been revamped again, offering new options for everyone! The summer nail colors are hot, and the new lip colors (there are 22!) are great for summer, fall, and all year round! If you'd like to try anything, please let me know!

Enjoy the 4th of July weekend, and travel safe! As I always say, "Watch out for deers and drunks!"

Splash!

Erin has always been known for making a splash wherever she goes, but yesterday, she really did! It was warm, and we decided it would be fun to blow up Erin's little pool and let her play in it on our back patio (10x10 cement slab off of our kitchen). This was fun, I put my suit on, Erin was splashing around, and we all were enjoying the sun. However, it was soon apparent, that Erin was too big for her pool, and we were definitely much too big. Since it was Father's Day, and we didn't really do much on that end, we decided to go to WalMart and find a bigger pool, that we could all use. The one we found is just perfect for the patio, allows Erin to really move around, and David and I can both fit in it too ... at the same time! Erin is overjoyed, and we are looking forward to cooling off in it too! We also had to get Erin a new swim suit, as she is too big for the one she used last year -- a friend who stopped by said it looks like a rainbow threw up on her new suit ... it's very colorful, and she picked it herself! We will have lots of fun, and hopefully Erin will learn to float this summer! Hope you have a great week, and enjoy your life!

It finally happened

Well, I've been dreading this day for a long time ... the moment every parent hopes to escape, but few really do ... the dreaded "pant-pooping in a public place."

We took Erin to the park tonight, and she was playing nicely with some kids, I was visiting with a very nice woman and hoping to book her for a facial, because I was enjoying her company so much!

Then I saw it, a look of horror on Erin's face as she stood atop the firetruck on the playground. The panic struck, and she tried to decide whether to get down or stay and finish the job. This decision took too long, and although she tried, she just couldn't hold it in any longer. Thankfully, we recognized this agonized look, and took her to the bathroom, where she finished her business.

I didn't realize we didn't conclude all business in the bathroom, until trying to help her pull her panties back up -- they were not cooperating so well. Those panties went in the trash, in case you were frightened or just wondering, and needless to say, our park trip was cut short, as Erin needed a bath, not just from the extremely muddy conditions at the playground, but ... poor girl, now the memory/story will haunt her for the rest of her days :)

A good lesson learned here in Lawrence today ... "You can't hold it forever!" Have a great day!

Another exciting day in Mary Kay!

I am so excited to announce yet another team member on my quickly-growing Mary Kay team! Brandy B. came with me to a guest event last evening, and is now excited about the new possibilities awaiting her as she embarks on the journey of ownng her own business! She is a beautiful woman who has a heart of service. Although I have not known her long, I am excited for our friendship to grow, as she is such a sweetheart, and I know that God brought her across my path for a reason!

So, welcome to the team, Brandy! We are excited to go back on target for that 2005 Red Pontiac Vibe this month, and see if we can't just wrap the whole thing in one month! Wouldn't that be something?! I read about a girl who achieved her car from her FIRST class ... wow! Anyway, as God has planned, we will move with Him!

Erin

Wow, I had hoped that parenting would not be this frustrating until Erin was a teen ... however, this is not our luck! This week has been kinda horendous, as Erin has decided that as she is almost 3, she needs to revisit every boundary known to her and see if it is still in place. Therefore, we are back to needing almost an hour to get to sleep at naptime, throwing screaming fits, hitting, throwing objects, yelling/talking back to adults, eating food off the floor (this is my fault for not sweeping after every meal). Those are just a few treats we've been experiencing. Another one, and you'll be able to attest to this if you've called me or I've called you in the past week or so, is Erin's ability to know exactly when I am on the phone, and producing a scream that is just the frequency to really grate on the nerves of everyone within three rooms of her, and within probably about 6 feet of the phone of the person who I am trying to dialog with in a semi-civilized manner. That one has been really special. She has been whiny, demanding, naughty, and devious all week. Any suggestions?? She has had several spankings this week (which seem to be working a bit more since she's only wearing panties these days), lots of toys have been in time-out for an afternoon, and today at naptime, I took away her "blue softee pillow", which really did make a big impact. She went to sleep after that! I've taken away priveledges, put her in time-out, and anything else I can imagine. Again, any suggestions?

For those of you who enjoy her antics, I'd love to invite you to come enjoy her for a day -- I need some quiet!

We love her. We are trying to cherish these times, and probalby failing miserably, but we do thank God for the gift of Erin!

This is a later addition ... we also know that throwing candy away makes a big blip on Erin's radar, resulting in tears and yelling ...

"We never, ever, ever throw candy in the trashcan, okay Daddy?!" Oh the humanity!

Bambinos and Naughty but Nice ... what a combo!

Today was crazy! I had a facial in Lawrence at 11 and my mom-in-law was so great to watch Erin while I was gone, and feed her as well, so I traveled to DeSoto, Lawrence, DeSoto, and Eudora this morning/afternoon. This evening, I traveled to Olathe, Lawrence, and back to Eudora. I did the "advanced" training at the Mary Kay meeting tonight (it was my first time, and although I have been preparing for about two weeks, compiling thoughts, and trying to be intune with God's plan, I still felt like it didn't go over well -- it's been too long since I've prepared lessons for adults!) and then was late in getting to my friends Laura's birthday party in Lawrence.

I had a blast with the birthday gang, and although we started the evening at Bambinos (Italian restraunt in Lawrence), we ended it standing under the awning, out of the rain, at Naughty but Nice. Now, this might seem strange, but mainly, the two businesses are next to each other, and the parking for Bambinos is against the building of NbN. Still makes for a fun story! We were a little concerned when a police car pulled into the parking lot and the officer entered the store. Maybe he lost his handcuffs??? We had lots of laughs, and I can't wait to see the few pics we took! It's always fun to have a girls' night! Happy Birthday Laura!

Camping

As Krista mentioned, the Rahija family/friends Reunion 2005 took place over the past weekend. We camped at John Redmond Res. near Burlington, KS, and had a nice time. Erin enjoyed all the attention from her aunts and uncle, and her Dunley and new friend Matt. We saw snakes and blue herons in the water, heard lots of fish, and unknowingly fed one or more racoons -- I guess they really go after animal crackers, Nutty Bars, and baked potatoes! I would say the weekend was fairly "incident free" except for Erin tripping on Roscoe's tether and a tent tie. We were stinky and hot upon returning home, but in one piece, and fairly sunburn free, as well as minimal numbers of bugbites and poison ivy! And, ... a fun time was had by ... :)

Erin, it seems had the best time, as when it was time for bed Sunday night, she begged us to go back to her campin' trip. I was not keen on this. It was fun, but I'm glad to be home.

Graceful as Ever

Well, once again, my natural grace and poise shine through! Today, I was on a phone interview with a potential new consultant, and was sitting on my bed. I decided to get up and go into the office so I could take some notes on our conversation. My body thought this was a fine idea, and moved forward and up to start the process. My feet, however, had some reservations about leaving the warmth of being tucked into my pant legs, and refused to budge. As you might imagine, the result was not-so-nice. I plummeted to the floor, landing on my hands and knees, particularly my right knee and left hand, acquiring a "strawberry" on both. The noise was so loud, that Erin came running in to scold me for being too noisy, but found me laying on the floor, and immediately began worrying about me, rubbing my legs, and kissing my knee. What a sweet moment. I am fine, just a little bruised (pride and knees). Thought all of you would like to know, I'm still the same, old, clumsy me!

Garage Sale Season

It's here! It's here! The dreary days of winter have gone, and it's time for sun, fun, and garage saling! I don't know what it is about garage saling that is so addictive ... perhapse the "needle in the haystack" syndrom takes over, or maybe it's just nice to get a good bargain on something you want or need!

Speaking of bargains, today was a good day for that! Getting a late start (10am), we hit six or seven sales. Some of them were neighborhood sales, and we attended on at a church. I ended up getting five shirts for Erin, a cute hoodie jacket, two pairs of Gap pants, two skirts, and an overall for baby Riggs ... three games for Erin, a pair of large squeaky dice (for Erin as we learn to play Yhatze!), Backpack complete with a star pocket (from Dora the Explorer) and three nice books ... for the bargain price of $6.80. I thought we did pretty well!

Erin, however, is more than excited about her new games. She had to get them out as soon as we got home ... however they needed a little cleaning, so after her nap we broke out the Mean Green and got her Cookie Scale, Cooties, and Hungry, Hungry Hippos games clean and fully operational. Now, the only problem is to help her understand that the games do not have interchangeable parts, and do not need to be out simultaneously.

She asked us today what "garage sale" means ... I think she'll be excited the next time we tell her we're going to one! Have a great weekend!

Newest Erinism

A new "funny" to add to the Erinisms list. Today, when Daddy asked Erin who loved her (old trick the babysitters taught her ... adult says, "Who's the cutest baby in the world?" Erin replies "ME!" Adult responds with "And who loves Erin?" Erin triumphantly shouts, "Everyone!" Everyone laughs, agrees, and we create a complex for our young daughter). Erin responds with, "Oh, Krista, Aunt Michelle ... they all love me!"

Yep, it's good to be two (and a HALF!).

Get Motivated!

I went to a training seminar today called "Get Motivated!" with my parents and sister (in-law and heart!)and had a great time! Zig Ziglar was there, as well as former NYC mayor Rudi G., and several other very motivational speakers. It was a long day, but provided much food for thought, and also revving up for a great Mary Kay month! We have a big production goal this month, as well as a goal to bring in 6 new ladies on my team! I know that God will provide the ladies, and our team is going to flourish! I am excited to see what He is doing in my life, and the lives of those who don't even know that He's working on yet! Have a great rest of the week, and leave me a post with any good news you have -- even if we've never met and you're just trolling through random blogs!

Mary Kay Open House Saturday, May 7th

Just a reminder that I will be having a
Mary Kay Open House this Saturday, May 7th,
in my home in Eudora.

Facials start at 2, 3, and 4.
I will also have gift sets available for
Moms, grads, brides, birthdays, dads, ...

There will be drawings, snacks, and savings!
Come on over, and bring a friend! It will be fun!
Remember, if you heard about this on my blog,
mention it to me, and receive an extra discount!

Contact me for more details and/or directions!
Hope to see you in Eudora on Saturday!

Weekend in Athol

Well, we survived the weekend trip to Athol. Rhett and Christina are happily married, the Mary Kay part of the day went well, and it was fun to catch up with some old high school friends. The singing part went okay ... however, the church needs to invest in a new music stand, as the one we were using was so ricketty, the music fell off during our singing in two of the three songs! Oh well, we did the best we could, and in one case, I just had to bend down and pick up the paper off the floor and keep going :) Erin had a blast at the dance, and wore Grandma and Grandpa Gerstenkorn out, I think! We also set a new trip record, and made it to Athol from Eudora in 3 hours and 50 minutes! Yikes!

In other news ... we are excited to have a new couple joining our ministry, Tim and Bree! They came to University Church for the first time on Sunday. They will be the "house parents" for the ministry center when we find one, and are getting married this summer. We are also welcoming Jimmy and Rachel, from Oklahoma, to Lawrence in June! Recently, Sean and Lisa have also met several families that are interested in University Church, and it seems that our little group may be growing! This is exciting! We are currently in a discussion called "The Matrix" (not about the movie!) that is interesting and I'd love to invite anyone to join us on Sunday evenings in Danforth Chapel, on KU's campus to add, listen, and take part in that discussion!

Well, that about does it for now. I don't think Erin's done anything too outrageous in the past few days ... or, I am just desensitized to it :) Have a wonderful day!

Awkward Erin Moment

Well, I guess it was bound to happen someday ... I was just hoping it would be later ... much later!

We ran into Dillon's for a quick potty break, and after coming out of a really nasty bathroom, Erin spies two guys and a girl coming toward us. They are probably 18-22 years old, and having a nice time chatting together. Well, Erin, who earlier in the evening had requested a ball out of a "gumball machine" but we didn't have time to get one, sees an opportunity to find some common ground with this small bunch of people, and bursts out, arms flapping wildly (still drying her hands from the handwashing after touching every imaginable surface in the nasty bathroom), "Do you boys have any balls?"

Wow, what do you even say to follow that? I would have to say that 1. my daughter is very friendly and 2. I hope she learns some tact in the future. However, when it comes to building relationships and starting conversations, she's one of a kind! Have a great day and enjoy!

On Target!

Just a quick note of celebration! I am officially on-target for my first Mary Kay career car, the 2005 Pontiac Vibe!!! I may be driving FREE here in another two months! How exciting!

Thanks to my team of fabulous women, Kelli, Debbie, Linda, Shannon, and Tina! Also, thanks to my husband for his support and new job title (business manager) in my business! Thanks to my mom-in-law, Lisa, and Grace for watching Erin while I go to meetings and facials, and giving me a few minutes of peace! Thanks to Director, Jill, the Driving Divas, and my sister Michelle for your inspiration, guidance, and love!

If you'd like to know how I might earn the use of a career car, or if you could earn one, please ask! I promise, if I can do it, you can too!

Open House in Eudora

Hello! I wanted to let everyone know I will be doing a Mary Kay open house and facial clinic on Saturday afternoon, May 7th at our home in Eudora. The facials will be featuring the wonderful NEW TimeWise Microdermabrasion product, as well as the other fabulous TimeWise products, or Velocity, if you prefer!

Microdermabrasion facials will be starting at 3:00, 4:00, and 5:00, but other shopping can happen anytime during the afternoon!

I have great gifts for MOMs (as Mother's Day IS May 8th!), and some great sales in honor of our mothers! I will also have gift certificates available!

Come and enjoy great girl-time, goodies, and great deals with me in Eudora!

Guys, you are welcome too, for the facials or just shopping time (Do you have something for your mom to pamper and appreciate her on her special day?!).

If you'd prefer to stay home, but would like to give your mom something special, go to my personal website and choose something nice there, or just email me from there and I'll answer any questions you might have or help you choose something she'll LOVE!

There will be a special bonus for those of you who find out about this via my blog ... just be sure to let me know that you heard about it here (even if you order on the website ... just mention the blog in the "comments" section)

Can't wait to meet several new faces on May 7th! I have a goal of seeing 30 new faces in May, and I'd love yours to be one of them! Bring a friend and get an additional bonus!!!

I live in Eudora, KS (East of Lawrence on Highway 10) , at 403 E. 12th. You'll take the Church St. Exit, turn North (toward the gas station). Take a right on 12th St, pass a trailer park, a yellowish-green house, and we're the first gray duplex (on the right side of the street). Email me with any questions!

To clarify, even if you do not live in the Lawrence/Kansas City area, I am happy to mail products to you ... I mail them all over the US, from Washington to Oklahoma, Kansas to North Carolina and Maryland. I pick up all shipping costs, so you only pay for the product you order! There are no regions or boundaries in Mary Kay, and I like to serve customers where they are! Soooo, check out my personal website, and find something you like ... or are needing! ... and let me serve you!

Princess Erin Potties

Well, Princess Erin, as she likes to be called has decided that it is finally TIME to be a big girl (however, she doesn't really know that, and is going through a phase where she likes to be called a baby, a "pequeno baby") and is going potty pretty much on her own, in the BIG POTTY! For the last three days, she has had only two accidents - we aren't counting nights yet, but even those diapers are less wet -- one right after naptime, on her way to the bathroom, and one tonight, trying to share the same toilet with her friend, Derek. I'm so shocked that I can't believe it! Although she is still a "private pooper", she now simply goes into the bathroom by herself, closes the door, does her thing, and comes running out triumphantly shouting out her success (and waiting for a help with the wiping phase). She's so pleased with herself and we are ecstatic ... maybe the last box of diapers really was the last box! How exciting!

I'm sure those of you reading are much impressed ... those of you who have ever changed Erin's diaper are probably relieved! Have a blessed day, and smile at someone you a. have never met, b. you normally wouldn't smile at, or c. BOTH!

Hooray!

Great news ... I have a brand new Mary Kay consultant on my team!

Debbie is my first "local" consultant, as all of my other team members are in Emporia. I'm so excited to get to know her better, and help her grow her business! I am also excited, because when she orders, I become a Red Jacket! Which means I am officially in leadership in Mary Kay! I am excited, and actually hoping to have two more new consultants on my team before the end of the month. God has laid some ladies on my heart, and I am praying they will be receptive to His will, not mine.

I am claiming financial freedom for my family, and with David's help, we will be driving free one of these days! Can't wait to share with you my great news of the new consultants who will be on my team this month! If anyone out there is interested in learning how you can make 50% profit (while getting your own products for 50% off!), earn the use of a career car (MK pays entire payment, entire tax/liscence, and 80% of insurance), and work entirely for yourself without quotas or regions, PLUS self-growth and friendships like you've never seen in a workplace, please let me know! It helps with my training too. I'd love to share with you!

Okay, gotta go to bed ... it's late and I need to pick Erin up tomorrow morning at 8:30 from Grandma. Have a great day!!

Erin-isms as of late

Some interesting quotes (or as near as we can remember them!)

"Mom, me and Bubba (stuffed bunny) are gettin' pretty and are going to go see my barn. Wanna get pretty with us and come along?" (since when it is necessary to get "gussied up" to visit a barn? no idea, but she was stunning, with jeans, hot pink shirt, too-small pink hat, Sunday shoes, and a big red bag to accessorize!)

Erin: "Gwanma, whatcha been doing today?"
Grandma G: "I've been sewing a new jacket."
Erin: "Oh, you're making a new jacket to wear outside?"
Gma: "Well, it's for Grandma to wear to Mitch's wedding. Grandma hopes she gets it done, cause it's been kinda hard!"
Erin: "Oh, it's been kinda hard? Kinda twicky?"
Gma: (laughing) "Yeah, kinda tricky."
Erin: "I'm sorry Gwanma, I hope it's not so twicky tomorrow for you. Good job Gwanma!" (a little cheer is good for the motivation, I guess!)

At a stoplight in Lawrence. Light turns from red to green. As the cars around us begin moving forward, Erin, with arm in the air proclaims, "Good for you, cars! Way to go!" (again, maybe even random drivers need a pat on the back and a "right arm" compliment!)

1:00am, Sat. night. Mommy enters Erin's room (Erin has supposedly been sleeping) to find lights on, Erin lining up pieces of crayon on her table, completely sans clothing and diaper, talking to the crayon bits ... "You are my keys! We've got to get dressed so we can go to the livary (library) and unlock the doors. We'll have to get a bow in our hair! Come on, come on! Hurry to get to the livary! Oh, hi mommy. We're going to go to the livary, and these are my keys, and we're going to unlock the doors! Want to come with us and unlock the doors? You need to get ready!" (Erin has never visited a library -- we've had lots of books at home -- but tonight we watched part of the movie Matilda, and the little girl there visits the library everyday, and so Erin is excited to visit. She now has a dress picked out for the event on Monday!)

Erin and Mommy are playing on the landing of the stairs, looking in the "grass" at all the "animals". Suddenly,
Erin: "Mommy, shhh, do you hear that?"
Mommy: "Hear what?"
Erin: "It's a bunny crying."
Mommy: "Why is it crying?"
Erin: "You're sitting on it!!! Mommy, mommy, you're sitting on the bunny!"
Mommy: "Where? Which way should I scoot?"
Erin: (hands flailing madly) "Mommy, can't you see it? It's a pink bunny! You're squishing it!"
Daddy: (a few hours later, chuckling heartily) "Yeah, mommy, can't you see the pink bunny? Come on, it's right there!" (thanks, Daddy!)

That's about it for now. I may have to go into the pink bunny story later, but it's late, and the laundry I've been waiting for is now ready to head into the dryer. Thought you'd enjoy a few more Erin Tales!

Veggie Song

I found a site that corresponds with someone's (maybe David or Krista?)earlier post about Erin responding to a question with a part of the Veggie Tales theme song. So for anyone in question about the words ... check them out here!

Freecycling

Hi! I am SOOO excited! I'm getting a piano next week (if we can get enough big strong men to help load it)!!!! I have missed having one around so much -- especially since my ability had gone down the toilet without practice. David introduced me to the wonderful world of "freecycling", where people give and receive things for free in a local area, and this morning he emailed to ask if I wanted a piano! I of course said YES, and now we can go pick it up from the Lake Perry area anytime!

Although it may not be a show piece (it's description was "painted a buttery yellow with a faded decal and 'distressed' finish"), it is definitely something to be excited about. Maybe I can finally learn/master how to "make up" accompaniment from chord sheets and play "improv" parts for UC music things (however, at UC, I would have to use a keyboard, as I don't think we could get the big strong, men to load and unload my buttery-yellow, upright piano twice a week indefinitely). Regardless, I am looking forward to being able to play for me again, as a stress reliever and just for enjoyment! I'm sure Erin will enjoy it too, but we'll have to cross that bridge as we get there. Now our neighbors ... don't know how they'll enjoy our new instrument, but they haven't complained about David's guitar or bass, so I'm hoping for the best!

Have a fabulous Tuesday!

misc weekend things

I was so disappointed to look at my blog today and find that the "peed-on foot" entry was the most recent ... I posted, or at least tried to post an entry on Friday night recapping my surprise and observations of a very artistically interpretive performance during the "Smuckers Stars on Ice" even airing on A&E that night. I was sort of disturbed by it, but not one to be interpretive about artistic things, I realize my opinions and displeasure of the performance were probably inaccurate and uninformed. If anyone saw the man drop out of the ceiling in a "stork" sling, and understands the significance of this, please let me know. I just thought it was plain strange, but, to each their own! So ... that's the recap on the post that never posted! Sorry, Krista, my first draft was much more cunning!

The weekend was great! We helped some friends move on Saturday morning, I had a Mary Kay skin care class featuring the new Timewise Microdermabraision in the afternoon which went smashingly well, and we went to Jade Mongolian barbecue in Lawrence for dinner, which was a very good time! Today, we went to church at our new "morning" church, Jacob's Well, in Westport, MO. Wonderful music, amazing teaching, and great discussion -- for the sermon! -- made the service a very full worship experience. Erin met lots of new friends in "her special class" (2-2 1/2 year olds), and was hoping to go back tonight. After lunch at Chili's, a stop at US Toy in Leawood, and the jaunt back to Eudora, David and I put Erin down for a much-needed nap, and planned the music for tonight's service for University Church. Our service went well, and although we are only having 2-4 people that aren't "staff-type" people, we seem to be "gel"ing as a group. God is definitely pulling some things together here, and the evil one is trying just as hard to pull them apart, so please keep us in prayer!

Now, Erin's in bed asleep, I'm almost asleep at my computer, and David's downstairs on his laptop, probably making lists of "optional" parts he wants for his Jeep (dreaming for now!). I'm hoping this week will be steadily busy instead of busy in spurts. Hope you had a fabulous weekend and are off to a great new week!

My foot was peed on today

Well, it's time for the late night posting ... and another episode of Erin Tales. What a day today has been! Thankfully, my daughter has collapsed in exhausted slumber after a hard day's work! We started off well, at 9:15, and things seemed to go downhill from there. She made a mess everywhere she turned, from grinding laundry lint into the hall carpet in the laundry area and my freshly cleaned pantyhose to pouring anti-itch liquid (Caladryl Clear type stuff) all over herself and a pile of sorted dirty laundry (the grayish load). She also managed to fall off my bed twice, spill a basket of clean laundry, bring half of her toys into my bedroom, and get more bread crumbs from her turkey and cheese sandwich on the table/floor than in her mouth. At Phat Tuesday, she managed to spill her milk on the carpet and dump an entire tin of porcelain dominoes into Habit's water bowl. The loud crash and splash zone was impressive from the latter! What a day!

The household topper for the day, however occurred during naptime (which she avoided with extreme craftiness today). We had just settled down, and low and behold, the potty fairy struck. So, we trudged to the bathroom. I helped Erin pull down her pants, still leaving the pull-up in place. Somehow, Erin forgot this, and started going potty. I did not realize this, and pulled down the pull-up to set her on the toilet. Wasn't I surprised by the warm shower on my clean bare foot?! I pulled the pseudo-panty back up quickly (they are called pull-ups for a reason, I suppose!), and asked her what the puddle was on and around my foot. Her response was, "Mommy, that looks like a big mess on your foot!" I can laugh now, but wasn't exactly pleased at the time. I pulled the pull-up down again, and set her on the toilet to keep her feet out of the "big mess", and was surprised to hear her peeing again (thankfully, this time in the toilet!). So, even though I irritated, I was impressed that she stopped in the middle and continued when she was in the right position! "Mommy wow, I'm a ...." Our little girl is growing up!

I think that's all for today. I'm beat! Until we meet again ...

Authentic Community

Wow! Tonight University Church was ... great, awesome, fun, ... yes, but I think "real" is the best word to describe tonight. The order of service was all screwed up, Daivd and I didn't have music ready until we flew out the door, and there weren't many people there, but God was. We only did three of the songs, we anguished over choosing and Sean didn't give the exact "sermon" he had prepared (at least that was my impression), and again, there weren't many bodies present, but, where two or three are gathered ...

The laughter, tears, prayer, and conversation that took place tonight were authentic, they flowed together the way life always does, but in the way that God entertwines it, not our knotted, chaotic mess of "organized living". Thank You, Father, for giving us a glimpse of what You desire in our hearts, lives, and Your church! Hope You enjoyed the evening as well!

Our budding community is something I am so excited about these days! I hope to meet some of you through UC, which meets each Sunday evening at 7:30 in Danforth Chapel on KU's campus, and each Tuesday for free food (Phat Tuesday) and a fun time at Sean and Lisa's house which is very close to campus (approx 21st and Naismith). We love to have fun, and get to know all sorts of people from the Lawrence area. Hope to see you soon!

Microdermabrasion!

I am so excited ... my new Timewise Microdermabrasion Set arrived today, and I'm going to try it this evening! After a haircut and brow-wax yesterday, I'm feeling like a new woman!

Anyone interested in trying a FREE Microdermabrasion treatment? At the spa or dermatologist clinic, the treatments are anywhere from $50-$100 a pop (at my OB office the treatments are $65). The Mary Kay product uses the same professional grade aluminum oxide crystals that are used in the "professional" treatments, however, you can do these yourself at home, and don't have to clear your schedule for an appointment!

If you are in the Lawrence/Kansas City/Topeka area, or Emporia, I would love to get together with you in person. If you are from "out of town" (like my North Carolina, Maryland, and Oregon customers!), I would love to send you a sample in the mail!

I am anxious to get this product on as many faces as I can (men or women) so I can see the results and get opinions on the matter. Soo ... if you'd like to help me out and get an expensive spa treatment for free (you will also get a quick Mary Kay facial!), email me or post to my blog, or visit my website and contact me there! My phone numbers are also available on my website!

I would also be interested in microdermabrasion experiences you have had at a spa/salon/clinic or products you have used at home -- I've heard dissatisfaction with some products individuals have purchased from department and discout stores. I'm just trying to be as educated as possible!

I'll post my response of this brand new product soon! Can't wait to hear from all of you!

Piddlefartin' and butt sweat

Wow! We just returned from the Allison Krauss and Union Station concert in KC! I was not particularly excited about this event, at first, just because I only knew one song by this very talented lady (When You Say Nothing At All - which is one of my favorite songs of all time, btw). David's boss, Richard, invited us to go with them, and we thought it would be a fun evening out and it would help us get to know them a little better.

We had a great time, and the music was GREAT! I don't know much about bluegrass music, but two of the people in the band are I guess "legends" (one played the dobo(?) and the other sang and played guitar/mandolin -- he was George Clooney's singing voice in "O Brother Where Art Thou"). I really enjoyed the entire evening! Plus, it was great to spend time with Richard and Janet, their kids Annie and Steven, and Chris and Tammi. We laughed a lot - which is always something I enjoy a tremendous amount - and had a wonderful time.

There were many funny moments throughout the evening ... one being one of my graceful moments. Those of you who know me are probably already rolling your eyes or laughing. We were trying to decide who was going to ride "shotgun" in the suburban, and I was "elected". Well, I moved to get into the large black GPS-ridden vehicle and didn't notice the dead plant stub sticking up out of the ground. You can guess the rest. I tried to make it graceful, but there was no stopping the trip. I thankfully did not fall to the ground, but managed to grab onto the open door, and kind of fall into the front seat. Needless to say, I was worried about the remainder of the evening, as it was off to a "great" beginning. I did not feel so bad, however, after witnessing someone else's graceful moment at the concert. The stairs to our seats were very short and steep, and after the lights went down, it was very hard to navigate. I also was nervous about having to move about in these conditions. My fears were realized in someone else as a tall young woman came down the stairs to find her seat in the near-dark. I saw her start to topple, and grieved with her silently as she fell down the last three stairs. It's nice to know there are other clumsies out there too!

Other funny moments of the evening revolved around various "new" words that emerged in our conversations ... piddlefart ... butt sweat ... , other guests at the concert ... woman with very big fluffy hair that Tammi was able to see through for the duration of the concert and the girl with a very annoying laugh sitting directly behind me (this girl laughed EVERY time Allison Krauss opened her mouth to speak -- and it was the EXACT same laugh each time, same number of chuckles, same pitch, uuhhgg!), and our quest to find Richard's big black suburban in the parking garage after the concert -- who knew the panic button on a vehicle would come in so handy, and so unhandy at the same time! There was also some commercial "jingle singing" on the way home, which is always exciting. My contribution was the Emporia ABC Seamless Steel Siding tune. I would have to say a good time was had by all!

Thanks to Richard and Janet G. for inviting us out for a great evening!

I have returned

Hello all. I return to the blog community with sad news. David and I were hoping this entry would be joyful, but it is not in the capacity we were hoping. We have known for about a month now that I was pregnant, but found out at my first doctor visit that there was no heartbeat, and our baby was no longer living. I started miscarrying on Saturday evening, and am still awaiting the end of this process. I may have to have the D&C tomorrow to finish things.

We are of course, heartbroken, but have been served, once again, by our Heavenly Father in ways we didn't know were possible. The incredible peace that has settled over our family is amazing, ... truly something that passes understanding. The power of prayer has been demonstrated over and over to us, as we have slept soundly and had the strength to move forward each day. We have had emails, phone calls, and visits with so many folks who have shared their love, compassion, and stories of their own loss. The most exciting thing to me is being a part of the Body of Christ, as it functions the way it was "built" to function. We continue to praise our Creator, whose ways are above our ways and thoughts above our thoughts and timing is literally, everything. I know that our baby is laughing and cuddling and sleeping in the arms of Jesus tonight and every night -- what more could I ask as a mommy, that Perfect Love cradle my child? It is hard, and I know I will have good days and bad, but I am excited to see (or not see) the glory that will come to Father because of our little one.

Erin is holding out okay -- we haven't really made a big deal about a new baby to her yet, just with little comments along the way about sharing some of her things with a new baby. In her mind though, the new baby is Aunt Chelle and Uncle John's baby, who will be arriving in early August (YEAH!!!), and we will just keep it that way. We've been blessed with family being close by to keep her overnight and help as we try to get to all the appointments and as I try to begin the physical healing. She is aware that I am "sick" and has been trying her best to help me feel better by administering lots of hugs and kisses, and occasionally washing my legs and feet with a damp washcloth. She is such a blessing and joy -- even if she is loud and jumpy lots of the time! We treasure her, even more now, as we pull together as a family. What a gift.

Okay, as usual, I've rambled on for much too long. Thank you for your prayers -- please keep them coming, as the days and weeks ahead will still be difficult. May God's peace envelope you today as we have experienced it in this very moment.

In Him, Sarah

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Not much going on here

Hello all! Just a quick post to say hi. Haven't really had that much exciting news around her since last week :) Erin's done some more wall art ... some out of creativity and some out of anger. However, it's spreading throughout the house, and no longer sticking to her bedroom. Keeping the Magic Erasers handy! She's also been quite the nose-picker lately. Don't exactly know why, but she's definitely an expert. And also ... she does eat her findings. I think sometimes she even just sticks her finger in her nose to taste it. How gross!!! I'm sure this is part of some psychological phase she has to go through, but still ... gross.

David was arguing again with the HP support people tonight, this time, via phone. I don't know yet how that fared. I'm guessing he'll post (vent) about it on his blog. He's not so excited about their customer support these days!

I've seen some interesting blogs over the last few days. It's crazy how much time one can spend "trolling" or whatever it's called! I spent like two hours on two separate occasions this week bouncing from blog to blog. However, I found some people to connect with about UC, so that was a blessing!

Okay, see, I told you I didn't have much going on here! Have a great Friday! Love to you all!

Taco Tuesday!

Hello All! Today is Phat Tuesday for University Church, and we are having TACOS! We meet at the Heston's house around 6ish and eat around 6:30. No exact thoughts on the dessert of the evening yet, but I'm thinking Tollhouse Pan cookies and chocolate cake?? Suggestions welcome! Hope to see you all there! Post or email me for directions! Have a great day!

Mystery Poster

Well, if any of you read the posts on the blogs like I do, I received one from redhairblueface. His goal is to post random thoughts on random blogs to gain "hits" on his own blog. I don't care, but thought this was funny if a little irritating. And, I'm all about pancakes and honey ham, so more power to him, but I guess he's caused a stir in the blog community. Just so you know, I do not know this strange individual, but was slightly amused by his blog. Have a great day.

Mr. Wonderful

My husband is amazing! Since I was gone to Emporia yesterday until 12:30 at night, Daddy and Erin spent the day together. They built a snowman, Erin colored herself with sharpe markers, and had lots of fun educating daddy on a day in the life of a two-year-old! Today, I hosted a facial here at home, and our home was a MESS when we went to bed last night. My husband, aka "Angel Man", got up (earlier than me) to help start cleaning up. He cleaned right up to the time the doorbell rang, and my guest arrived. He then trooped upstairs, persuaded Erin to take a nap, and worked on laundry. WHAT A GIFT this man is to me! THANK YOU DAVID! I LOVE YOU!

New Consultant!

Hey! Great news! I have a new consultant on my Mary Kay team, Linda from Emporia! She has been one of my customers for about a year now, and decided she wants to share what she's found to be a wonderful thing with others! So excited to have her on my team! I currently have three consultants, Linda, Shannon, and Tina, and am anxiously waiting for them to become active! I know they will all be great!

I traveled to Emporia on Saturday to help Shannon, my team member in the Tri Sigma house, do her first skin care class! We had 5 guests, and a few "walk through" guests, and had a great time! Haven't laughed that hard in a few days! I also made 6 deliveries, had dinner with my dear friend, Kelli B., and did a class in the dorms in the evening, where I met a girl at a snack machine and sold a Cadillac Bag! What a great day!

Puppies and Poop

I know, I know ... I should be going to bed, but I wanted to share about Erin's busy last few days. Monday was so beautiful, we played outside for quite a while in the afternoon, blowing bubbles, playing "soccer" (or some version of it that involves me kicking the ball and Erin running to it, picking it up, and throwing it up in the air to hit her head), and rolling around in the grass. We also had the joy of playing with the neighbor's four 7-week-old puppies, Libby, Sugar, Roly-Poly, and ... I can't remember. They are some sort of a small pug dog, and so ugly they're cute. They were so small, and their main body almost fit into my hand! Of course, as puppies do, they licked Erin's face, ran around and jumped with her, and ... peed on me. This was okay, though, because it was a great day, and not even puppy whiz was going to put me in a bad mood! David came home from work, we ran to the bank, where Erin got her second batch of stickers for the day, and tried to confiscate the manager's family picture :) Nice, Erin. After the bank, we piled back in the car, headed home, and played outside for a while, but it was getting dark and cold, so we went in and made quesedillas for dinner. A FUN day!

Now, I was really looking forward to today, after such a great day yesterday, but woke up feeling horrible. Erin was kind of a mess all day, and wonder of wonders, didn't take a nap (those of you at Phat Tuesday can probably attest to this from the grumpiness factor!). After fighting with her for a few hours, I gave up, hopped in the shower, and tried to get ready for the Mary Kay "Trash It Night". I dropped Erin off with Sean and Lisa -- THANKS! -- and ran to pick up my guest for the meeting. Now, this in itself doesn't sound so bad, but the worst happened while I was away. Erin, who loves to watch movies in Caleb's room on Phat Tuesdays, accidentally got stuck in the room alone. Apparently the situation was distressing to her, and she had a messy (to put it nicely) diaper. While calling for help by knocking on the door with one hand, the other hand was busy making a mural out of Caleb's full-length mirror on the back of the door. I'll be you can guess the medium (and no, we were not so lucky as before when she colored her wall with purple crayon)! Yep, the princess smeared nasty poop all over herself and the door of Caleb's room. Lisa and a few of the other girls disrobed Erin and threw her in the tub, then dressed her in some clothes in her diaper bag (a KSU Wildcat shirt - great way to make friends at KU!). I guess this upset her terribly, and she cried for a while. David then took her downstairs to play the drums, I guess to work out her aggressions. It worked, but when I arrived, she immediately began misbehaving again, so a fun evening was had by all! Oh, the budding artist alive in our daughter!

Two great things about today -- we got to have a lunch date with David at Mr. Goodcents in DeSoto. Erin fell asleep on the way home, and we didn't have to fight about bedtime! Yeah! Well, I really do need to go to bed now, I'm a tired mama! Tomorrow is another day ... it will be great! Have a good one!

Trash It Night!

Tuesday, January 25th is Trash It Night for Derrell's Driving Divas! Our Mary Kay meeting in Olathe will be extra fun this week as we invite our guests to bring old non-Mary Kay products to "trash" in our big trash can, and receive special discounts on your new Mary Kay products for doing so!

Trash 1 item - 10% off corresponding MK item
Trash 2nd item - above + 20% off corresponding MK item
Trash 3rd item - above + 30% off corresponding MK item
Trash 4th item - above + 40% off corresponding MK item
Trash 5 items or more - above + 50% off corresponding MK item

Now, don't panic, if after trying Mary Kay products during the facial, a guest does not wish to trash the current product, that is fine. However, to get the discounts, the guest must trash their corresponding item.

I know many of you would have a great time at this event -- I'm so excited, it gives you a chance to clean out your cosmetic drawer, cupboard, counter tops, and boxes and fill them with products 1. you love 2. you will use 3. come backed with a 100% satisfaction guarantee ... that are on SALE! How much better does it get? You say "They could be free!" Well, here's your chance ... for giving us your opinion about our meetings and business plan, you will be entered into a drawing for $100 in FREE Mary Kay product!!! This is a January promotion only, so this week is your last chance to enter! Now, I think we've covered the bases on why you would want to come! Also, it is a FUN evening out with the girls, full of compliments, positive affirmations, and lots of laughter! I'd love to have you as my guest! Please call me, or email, or post to let me know you're interested!

We'll meet in Olathe at the Machine Shed Restaurant, at I-35 and 119th and start at 6:20. If you'd like to eat there, try to be there at 6:00 to order. If you need a ride or directions, please let me know! Can't wait to see you on Tuesday!

Candyland!

The recipe was a success! David's persistence with the candy thermometer and stirring paid off and provided us with a smashing batch of Pecan Brittle -- he literally smashed it in a zipper bag! It tastes great too! Erin really liked it, and we did too, as it kept her little mouth busy for a while and kept her a little more quiet than usual! Thanks to mom Rahija for providing the candy thermometer and pecans!

Candy

David is trying a new recipe (for us) tonight. He's making Pecan Brittle. You might keep us in prayer that we don't 1. Burn our home down 2. Burn ourselves or Erin 3. Get so frustrated that we throw the stuff across the room -- quite a sticky mess to clean up, I fear! We'll let you know the outcome later!

Skunk Song a Big Hit

Hey! Just wanted to let you know that my grandma got to come home from the hospital yesterday! The doctors removed 1000 cc of fluid from the cavity in her ribcage around one of her lungs, and the other side drained itself -- that's a lot of fluid! Anyway, she's not so happy because she's on a low-sodium diet, and thinks she won't be able to eat anything that tastes good, but is otherwise in good spirits. Erin and I got to talk to her two days ago on the phone. She requested Erin sing a song for her. After much deliberation (like 2 minutes of silence!), Erin chose the Skunk song ...

Well, I stuck my head in a little skunk's hole

and the little skunk said,
"Well bless my soul!

Take it out! Take it out! Take it out! Take it out!"
Psshhtt ... I removed it!

Quite the charmer, eh?

Anyway, it seemed to lift the spirits! Thanks for all of your prayers for her, and my mom and grandpa. They have had some great ministry opportunities with other families who have been in the ICU, and also with the nursing staff. God was at work here!

Earning the Ring

Friday is the big day -- I earn my first real piece of Mary Kay jewelry! Our National Sales Director, Stacy James, issued a challenge for everyone to do 6 phone interviews or bring 8 models to meetings this month, and if we met the challenge, we would earn a ring.

I've done 5 interviews this month, and have two scheduled for Friday, so I will earn my ring this week! I am super-excited about this also, because as of now, one girl has filled out an agreement and is waiting on a credit card number, another girl is waiting until her check comes in next month to sign up, and the woman we interviewed today really wants to be a consultant too, and is visiting with her husband about it this evening.

Now, for those of you who have followed my Mary Kay journey, situations like this have risen and fallen through, but even if none of them become consultants, I know I can book and hold several interviews in a month! I am trying to be patient and wait on the Lord to provide a team for me, which will be a ministry and source of even more extra income for my family. He always provides enough, and when I am faithful, He blesses in abundance. Abundance does not always mean overflowing money, but whatever my need is at that time. I know He has equipped me far beyond what I think I can accomplish, and I am excited to travel the next part of the journey! Thank you for all of your support!

Marriage Proposal

Yesterday I received a very strange marriage proposal ... from my two-year-old daughter. During her post-nap diaper change, Erin looked sweetly up at me and said, "Mommy can you marry me?" I was taken aback, and asked her if she could repeat the question, which she did with clarity, and I was again, taken aback. What should I say? I first kind of laughed and told her no because I was already married to daddy. Then she giggled and said, "No, you're my husband, silly mommy!" Again, what to say?! Erin enjoys bantering with anyone over what is "hers" (ex. grandma's red car, my bed, Kailee's toys, ...) and so I could see this was just a playful banter. So, I finally told her that I would marry her if she wanted. She gleefully responded with a big smile, got up, and ran off. She didn't mention this again, so I assume I answered to her satisfaction -- I thought it was interesting that she got the husband/wife role (at least partially, anyway), and wanted to take part in that. What a funny little mind that girl has!

Dancing out Loud!

Hello all! Time for a dailyish post. It was a busy day, for a Saturday, as we had worship practice for tomorrow morning this morning at 10:30. Before that, however, I took Princess Erin to meet grandma and grandpa at Sonic, where they whisked her away to a Barbie Princess and The Pauper birthday party, in honor of Miss Princess Birthday Girl, Kailee Lynn! Haven't heard the results of the party yet, but we spend a lot of time last night and this morning visiting about how the presents today were all for Kailee, and not for Erin. Hopefully this stuck with Erin throughout the duration of the party!

Anyway, back to practice. We added two new members to the team this morning, which was great, and David's back to playing bass, which was his hope in the beginning! The Evanesence song is actually coming along very well, and although Carl and I are nervous, I think it will be fine -- to God's GLORY! After practice, David was playing his electric guitar, and doing the ever-familiar and versatile chord progression G C D. Now, this is the backbone of many songs, but the one that popped into my head was the ever-popular children's camp/VBS song, "Pharoah Pharoah". I started singing, and all of a sudden, a twitch took hold of me, and before I knew it, I was tearing it up, doing the motions to the song. Now, had it just been David and I, this would have possibly been mildly embarrassing, but nothing to worry about. However, most of the band was still there, and watching in amazed horror as I cut the rug (thankfully not the cheese!). For those of you who know Carl Kinser (C Bone), just ask him what a terrific dancer I am!

Later, David and I went to Mass St. Music today, where David purchased a new guitar -- merry Christmas, David! The old electric was just to the point of no return, I fear, so instead of investing money to try to prolong its death, we just didn't. What a happy camper.

Then, we went to Quinten's Bar and Deli on Mass St. for lunch -- great potato soup in a breadbowl!!! -- and watched part of the KU/Colorado game. We have become KU BB fans, and are enjoying it very much!

After lunch, I came home (David stayed in Lawrence to fix Carl's computer), finished watching the Jayhawks beat the Buffaloes, and took a nap -- wow, that felt great! David came home, woke me up, and after I fixed soup for supper, we watched the movie Twisted, and now are getting ready for bed (still tired, even after the nap!). Hope you all had a great Saturday, have a stupendous Sunday, and are ready for work on Monday morning. I have a skin care class tomorrow afternoon, which I'm hoping will go really well! Please keep my business in prayer as I strive to keep God first in everything I do. I have a new recruit pending right now, from Tennessee! May God's will be done as I try to follow it! Until another time ... farewell!

Praise about Grandma B!

Wonders never cease! On the way to Kearny via ambulance this morning, my grandma's heart "righted" itself. The strange "other" beats stopped and she was back to her normal. The cardiologist said that he is sure that she had an allergic reaction to a medication they gave to her in Smith Center. It is very rare that this would happen, but as the numbers have it, it happened to her. They are planning on keeping her for 2-3 days, as they have to remove some fluid (I'm not sure from where), and have to wait for her normal blood thinners to leave her system before inserting the large needle for fluid removal. Anyway, the report is GREAT! Mom and grandpa are staying in the hotel within the hospital, and don't have to get in and out of the weather during the hospital stay, so that is one less stress for everyone.

Lord, thank you for healing Grandma, for your glory!

To all prayer warriors, thank you! Love you all!

Grandma moved to Kearny, NE

Well, things are not looking good for my grandma. She went by ambulance to Kearny, NE this morning, to be under the care of her cardiologist. My mom and my grandpa went too, but had to go home and pack/shower first, so grandma was going to have to check herself into the hospital. When mom and grandpa were leaving the hospital, I guess the goodbyes were very teary, and my dad said mom was very worried and feeling helpless -- something mom doesn't do well. Please pray for mom and grandpa and grandma to make good decisions, pleasing to God. They will need peace, strength, and wisdom, as well as comfort. Thank you all for your prayers. It means so much to us.

Erin Tales

Well, someone requested Erin stories on my blog, so here's the first "big" one. Today, while Erin was coloring in her room (the latest obsession around here!), I heard a strange noise, much like a swooshing sound. I of course sounded the concerned "Erin? What are you doing" call, and the sound increased in speed, intensity, and decible. Becoming very concerned, I lept down the hallway towards her room, slowing before crossing the threshold, and took a deep breath before entering. As one of my fears was realized, I saw my daughter boldly adding color to her wall in great sweeping motions. "The Color Purple" is no longer just an early Oprah movie, it now describes a portion of the wall in my child's room ... in our rental home. Thank goodness for washable crayons and Mr. Clean Magic Eraser! Tomorrow we shall tackle that cleaning up project!

Another joyous part of the day, was Erin's bubble bath. We get to take one about once a week, as it's not healthy for little girls to take bubble baths very often, and she LOVES it! She cooks with the bubbles, splashes them, hides her bath toys under them, squealing with delight as they pop to the surface covered in bubbles. Well, today, toys weren't the only things in the bubbles. Yep, you guessed it, Erin pulled the infamously sneaky poop-in-the-tub trick. This happens about once a month, and happens so quickly, even a trained observer (aka: me) can't see it coming -- only floating. It's always a party when this phenomenon occurs, and surprises me EVERY time! Someday I'll learn, but for now, the sneaky trick still gets me every time!

Well, that's it for this session of Erin Tales. Tune in next time when Erin will ...

Grandma Update

Well, according to my dad, my grandma is not doing so hot as of this evening. Earlier in the day, they were going to send her home tomorrow, but not now. Her trouble has been with the aortic valve, (she's had arterial fibulation for several years now) but this evening one of the ventricles started doing a strange beat, out of sync with the others. This is not good, as in if it continues, it will result in a heart attack. Grandma doesn't seem to notice any discomfort during these times, and mom's chosen not to tell her about the severity of the issue, in efforts to keep her stress level low. One of the times this happened, she was brushing her teeth for bedtime. David, in an effort to be humorous, said that maybe she just needs to quit brushing her teeth. This quickly moved from funny to frightful. Those of you who have seen grandma eat know why! Yikes! Not only would we see the food during meals, but for the duration of the day as well ... hopefully this does not give you nightmares! Humor aside, it seems as if grandma's heart is giving out, and slowly telling us it can't work much longer. I ask for your prayers as we prepare for this time, be it tomorrow, next month, or down the road even further. My grandpa will be lost without her -- they've been married for over 50 years, and still flirt, do devotions together every morning, and pray together multiple times a day. My mother will be lost too, as grandma has been her best friend, I think, for many years now. It seems their roles have reversed in the past few months/years. Mom referred to herself as a "sandwich mom" yesterday, which I took to mean parenting on both ends of the generation spectrum. I don't know how this will affect everyone, but God does, and that's what matters. It's His timetable, His "say", His child! We can rejoice in that ... I know she does. I can hear the two of them singing "Rejoice in the Lord always, and again I say REJOICE" after devotions! What a gift to our family! Thank you for your continued prayers - we know they are heard and answered, even if we don't "get" the answer! Have a great Friday!

Everything Quiet

Just so you know, David finally got Erin to sleep (safely) last night, around midnight. She has been going through this "phase" of wanting to be awake all day (and night) long. Naptime is easier than bedtime, but it is really frustrating. Her comments like: "I need mommy to 'nuggle me" - after 30 minutes of snuggling -- cease to be cute after about 10 pm. She slept late this morning, and seems to be a bit demanding and sour already, but I'm hoping that me being positive with her will help smooth that little wrinkle away today, as it's a busy day and evening. However, we're going to the bank today, which she LOVES, and that should be a high point! It's the small things!

Well, today I've got lots of Mary Kay booking to do, as well as 3 MK interviews, worship practice for Sunday, grocery shopping, and I'm sure there are other things as well! First, however, I need a shower! So, on that note, I leave you for the afternoon. Have a great day, and I shall return later!

What Day is it?

You know, I am typically a confused individual, but today has been ridiculous! I think I have been convinced that today was Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday at different times today. I don't know which end is up!

Erin's in the other room screaming for me, but it's a quarter to midnight, and she's had plenty of time to relax, so I think we're going to let her cry it out, as long as she stays in her room. Why was it, again, that we didn't put the crib up upon moving to Eudora??? I think that was a laps in parenting judgment!

I had a skin care class tonight at the spur of the moment. We did a "get skin ready for bed" routine instead of the makeup routing. Kind of fun. The girls were even in pajamas!

Haven't heard anything on my grandma today, but I assume that is good news. Mom is quick to pass along the potentially bad news it seems. Thank you for your prayers.

David just rushed into Erin's room to put her back in bed. It doesn't sound like it's going well. I don't think he realized she wanted more music on, and now there's loudness coming from both of them. Might be time for mom to intervene. On that note, goodnight, sleep well, and check out the blogs of my friends and family sometime. Quite the bunch!

Prayer Request

I just got word from my mom tonight that my grandma went into the hospital and has congestive heart failure. She is fine, but will stay there for 3-5 days. She has a weak heart and weak immune system. My grandpa, who had heart valve replacement surgery just before Thanksgiving, is doing well, but he needs to stay calm and not get worked up to prevent backwards progress in his recovery. Please pray for their peace as they both work to heal, and for my mom, who is the rock in the storm for them. Thanks!

Opening Day

Hi, yes, due to popular demand (by an overwhelming THREE people), I am starting a BLOG! I don't necessarily have much to say, except that I guess I am glad to be joining the "blogging community". I have read several posts on blogs of friends and strangers alike, and am kind of liking this way to keep in touch, yet ramble (something I'm extremely good at) all at once! I'm sure that my blog will not be as fancy as many of yours, but my techie geek husband will probably help me out some in that department, as he so graciously does so often! Talk to you all later!